History has been built by our most accepted leaders who are remembered primarily for their talent to implant courage and inspire confidence beyond a single speech. Just think how different this world might be without the calming reassurance of FDR’s fireside chats or Churchill’s defiant eloquence. President Kennedy once remarked that Winston Churchill had the ability to take the English language to war.
Whether you’re conducting a private interview, motivating a small sales team or delivering a speech to thousands or more, your success as a leader is defined by your ability to persuade with clarity and passion.
Effective Communication
The art of effective communication is the basic building block to persuading a person or people to take action from your words. Believe it or not, there are 6 important steps to one successfully communicated thought. Yes, it may be a little overwhelming at first, but before you know it, successful communication will be another part of you that comes naturally with practice.
The sender, the person initiating communication must:
1. Think of the meaning or purpose of the message.
2. Thinks of the meaning with words and or symbols.
3. Transmit the message through words or a letter.
The receiver, the person choosing to listen to the message must:
4. Receive the message through words or a letter.
5. Translates the given message through words or a letter.
6. Understands and accepts the meaning presented.
For every message you sent, if you were able to write down every step, the goal would be to have Step 1 match Step 6. To have Step 1 and 6 match, it is important that Step 3 and 4, the actual communication process, are delivered as planned and received clearly. Sometimes, there are circumstances out of your control with steps 4-6, such as a receiver having a bad day or is tired and chooses to not listen or their minds are preoccupied with other matters. In a work environment, the next principle is important to practice.
Ability to Properly Present One-self (Public Speaking and Public Image)
The ability to properly present your self is important to effective communication for the above Steps 4-6. Often, there is break in communication because team members, or people employed by you, choose to not listen to you for reasons including general dislike of you, ignorantly not honoring your expertise, or they find no quality in your messages, etc. As a leader or manager, your schedule is often busy; the skill of effective communication must flow seemingly for optimum work results. The goal is to have team members gravitate to you through your words and to achieve this; your messages must be clear with quality and passion.
Here are some important qualities of a leader who earns respect:
1. Maintaining Good Eye Contact – A leader who engages his audience will obtain more listeners. If you can, stray away from speeches that use many props like power point presentations and many handout papers.
2. Body Language – People will consciously or subconsciously read body language. If you are trying to deliver a message, it is important to appear accepting and full of action by speaking to people with open arms. Crossing your arms is viewed as defensive and insecure. It is equally as important to stand up straight and if you want to look like you are very interested and passionate, lean slightly forward. Leaning slightly forwards makes a person appear engaging.
3. Inspire Trust – To inspire trust, a person must appear to be an authority and credible. It is just as important if not more important to be generally liked and viewed as an honest, hard working individual. Only then, will people begin to trust you and drop what they are doing to receive any verbal or written messages you deliver.
Eloquent Use of Facts
When speaking, people chose to listen for several reasons, among these important reasons are giving facts and statistics that give listeners or buyers without a doubt reasons to buy your words and/or your product. It is important to use your facts wisely and research them thoroughly, because some people only give you one chance to prove trust and you want to appear very credible. Use facts to call people to action and prove your authority.
Inspire Calm, Confidence and Courage
To inspire these three important feelings, you, the leader, must first deliver your message already feeling calm, confident and courageous. A good speaker knows that to deliver a message with these three feelings, a listener will acquire trust in your words.
1. Calm – To understand the importance of calm, let us look at the alternative which is to be over anxious or nervous. To feel over anxious, others will pick up on those feelings and question the intent of your message. Some will think you are hiding something. To be nervous, some will question trusting your words or judgments. Calm is the initial gateway feeling to earning trust. When you are calm, others will be calm.
2. Confidence – Appear confident with your message and others will feel confident with the message they receive from you. Confidence will inspire trust in you and your words. Confidence is the building block for Courage.
3. Courage – Once you inspire confidence, the receiver will feel the courage to accept your message and buy into your words and/or product. Confidence and courage go closely hand in hand with one another. One will not function properly without the other. Instilling courage without confidence could be a manipulative version of forceful tactics that will discourage people to not come back to buy from you or speak to you. To inspire confidence but not courage, a seller or leader has not completed his purpose which is to persuade the listener to call to action.
What’s In It for Me?
Understanding what is important to your audience—what they’re feeling about your topic, where are the roadblocks for them, what knowledge/experience do they already have with your topic, do they have the motivation, power and ability to do what you’re asking of them—will guide you in choosing the most appropriate persuasion method for each segment of your presentation.
Close Powerfully!
This is your final chance to cement your message, make the audience care and call them to action. Don’t let your close fade away by asking if there are any questions or thanking the audience for their time. Close with powerful language—a quote, a statistic, a story—and make it clear to your audience what you want them to do.
Incorporate these persuasion methods as a powerful way to move your audience to embrace your message. Aristotle no doubt would have agreed with 19th century British politician and essayist, Thomas Macaulay who said, “The object of oratory alone is not truth, but persuasion.”
Persuade With Passion
This is a tool the most memorable speakers in history use, which is often what most public speakers, managers and leaders, are lacking. In our society, our slogan is “Give Us the Cold Hard Facts”. According to Harvey MacKay, author of the book Swim With the Sharks, “The No. 1 skill most lacking in business today is public speaking.” Speaking to your followers, your staff and even your family is important to build connections and inspiring motivated actions. Often organizations fail because they have not paid enough attention to the importance of reaching people with passion and the human spirit. With all the different types of people out there, only a percentage of them respond to only the cold hard facts.
Because this is a very powerful tool to use, there is a section dedicated to using this tool. Visit The Inspiring Leader – Public Speaking to learn more.